Dave & Tom Classic - If God Knows What You'll Pray For...Why Pray?

Dave and Tom Classic 1604

Gary: Welcome to Search the Scriptures 24/7, a radio ministry of The Berean Call. I’m Gary Carmichael. Thanks for tuning in! In today’s program, we conclude a two-installment series of classics from our from our Search the Scriptures Daily archives with the late founder of The Berean Call, Dave Hunt, and TBC executive director, Tom McMahon. This week, they address the question: If God Knows What You’ll Pray for…Why Pray? And now, here’s Tom.

Tom: Thanks, Gary. You are listening to Search the Scriptures Daily, a program in which we encourage everyone who desires to know God’s truth to look to God’s Word for all that is essential for salvation and living one’s life in a way that is pleasing to Him. For the last two weeks we’ve been discussing prayer, which is one of the most important aspects of our lives as Christians, and we began the topic with a question from Dave Hunt’s book In Defense of the Faith, and that led us to a number of other questions about prayer, which we are still addressing. But let me pick up with the next question from Dave’s book: “It is my understanding that Christians should pray ‘according to God’s will.’ Why doesn’t God do His will without being advised how to do it? And if He knows everything, why does He need anyone to tell Him what needs to be done? If God ‘cares for His own,’ as I have so often heard preached, then why do ‘His own’ ever have to cry to Him to supply their needs?”

Dave: Tom I don’t remember where that question came from, who asked it—this is some time ago, but first of all…

Tom: But it’s a question, I’m sure, that is on a lot of people’s minds. People have thought about it from time to time, so it’s a good question.

Dave: Right. First of all, we don’t advise God what to do. That’s what some people think. That’s the idea behind positive confession. Just decide what you want and make a positive confession about it Or they will even try to be biblical. “Well, God will give you the desire of your heart, so express the desire of your heart and if you express it positively and you say it over and over, then God will give it to you.”

Tom: Dave, that error even pushes out to a degree that we work the same way God works. We’re “little gods under God,” and as He works, this is what we do.

Dave: We can “bring it into existence by repeating it,” so that’s not prayer at all. That’s an affirmation. This is what it’s called in the occult. No, we ask God for things. “Ask and you shall receive.” “You receive not because you ask not,” James said. However, that doesn’t mean that everything we asked we will get. It would be bad if we did. If a parent gave a child everything they asked, that would be a disaster, because then they can have anything they want, they can run the show. In other words, it’s no longer asking; it’s demanding. “Your wish is my command!” So we are going to have God that says that to us?!

Tom: Yeah, and Dave, I think about…regarding children, how much of a problem this can be. I remember a cartoon - I think it was Barry’s World or something; it was just one cell, and you saw a little 3-4 year old standing there holding a placard and on the placard it said, “Instant gratification, ain’t fast enough.” So that’s where we get to sometimes.

Dave: Yeah, on the other hand, a person could ask the question - it’s a logical question – “Well, if I’m to pray according to God’s will, then what’s the point of praying? Isn’t God going to do His will anyway? So why not just wait for God’s will to be done?” Well, prayer…let’s say I have a friend in need, or someone needs healing, they’re ill, or they need a job, whatever it is…

Tom: Provision…

Dave: Yes, I like the way William Law said it many years ago. He spoke of a certain pastor, who, he said “learned the infinite value of souls by appearing on their behalf so often in God’s presence.” So, number one, prayer can be an exercise of my heart. It exercises my compassion, my love, and concern for others. It also teaches me God’s will; it teaches me patience. I am coming to him as my heavenly Father. I’m not demanding; I’m asking. And in the process of maybe not answering or maybe it’s not God’s will at the moment, maybe this is not His time, or His way - He has other ways of bringing these things about - I don’t know, but I’m positioning myself to learn something about the heart of God and the ways of God.

Tom: So, Dave, in Philippians:4:6Be careful for nothing; but in every thing by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known unto God.
See All... where it says “Be careful for nothing, but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known unto God.” God knows beforehand what we are going to bring, but nevertheless this is His command.

Dave: Yes, whatever the circumstances—well, first of all, I put myself in God’s hands. I want His will. I have gone through many situations like that, so I’m not just speaking theory. I probably mentioned it before, but I was given the management of hopelessly bankrupt corporations. Checks had been mailed out that would overdraw the bank accounts by about a $100,000 within a couple of days when they hit the bank. They owed about $80,000 in back payroll taxes. (They shut you down for that.) And it took about $15,000 a day to keep the doors open … and nowhere to get the money. I went through three years of relying on God totally and saw Him do many miracles. On the other hand, He never did it just the way I wanted it. But He always came through in this particular situation.

I’ve taken things behind the Iron Curtain and seen those guys go after that car, taking it apart, undoing everything, ripping the lining out of my wife’s purse. We had a suitcase full of Bibles. They’d handled every suitcase many times, [and] never opened that one. Amazing! I don’t think I’ve said it over the radio [but] I remember (I probably told you Tom), but I remember Jon, our youngest - I think he was seven at the time - and as we are stuffing the suitcases back (we had a VW bus), back in the back of the VW bus, the guys have gone through them except for one, and he said in a loud voice, “Did they look in the brown suitcase?” [laughing] I am trying to hush him up, but anyway they never looked in the brown suitcase.

Tom: And there were Bibles in there?

Dave: Bibles, right, for Romania, actually. But we’ve seen the Lord’s hand in many, many ways. But that doesn’t mean that He’s our servant – [that] He’s just doing things for us as we want them. No, He is teaching us and guiding us.

But prayer - we are told to travail in prayer. We are told to pray without ceasing. We are acknowledging our total dependence upon our heavenly Father, and He’s going to give us what He knows we have need of rather than what we want. 

Tom: Dave, this idea of “pray without ceasing” – now, does that mean we are trying to wrestle God over a certain issue? What does the Bible have in mind here when it says - I think there’s a term “importune” - that we are to bring…now, again, let’s say we have something that we keep praying about and keep praying about and keep praying about. I mean, God knows. What are we doing there?

Dave: Tom, I don’t think it means ask again, and again, and again, and again. Because Jesus says that’s what the heathen do: “Vain repetition, as the heathen,” Jesus said. Don’t use it. Over and over and over. The Tibetans think the more times they can spin the prayer wheel, the more likely it is the gods will hear them.

Tom: Yes, Nichiren Shoshu, or their different Buddhist approaches to it.

Dave: But, Tom, I can say I pray without ceasing. I’m praying right now. You know, I am in an attitude of prayer before my heavenly Father. “Lord, please help us with this radio broadcast.” Sitting next to someone on the airplane: “Lord I don’t know how to approach this person.  If this person is open to your Word and you want me to talk to them, then work it out – circumstances - and I’ll sort of make a little approach or something, a nice friendly gesture. So I am continually praying. I get on an airplane: “Lord, take us safely.” But it’s not that we’re anxious. It’s what that scripture says, “Don’t be anxious, don’t be careful. Don’t be anxious, be careful for nothing, but in everything….” So I’m not worried, but I commit everything to my heavenly Father. We should be in an attitude of prayer before God at all times.

Tom: So if I’m thinking about my family and I’m praying every day for protection, that’s not vain repetition?

Dave: No.

Tom: Even though God knows the first time I pray that one prayer - He remembers. It’s not like “Oh I forgot, Tom prayed this and now he reminded me.” That’s not the way God works. But He does want us to continually bring things before Him. Again, this is not for His sake, right? It is for our sake.

Dave: Well, Tom, let’s be honest, and let me make a confession of my own here. I know people right now who have needs. I have a very dear friend of many years with prostate cancer. I have other friends with various needs. I have to confess I don’t show my concern for them as much as I should by coming before the throne of grace on their behalf. So I think this is part of what the Lord is talking about. “Pray without ceasing,” Paul says. I should continually have these dear people on my heart and mind.

And I think of Paul. He was a very busy man. I think I’m busy, but he was far busier. He said he “had the care of all the churches. Beside those things that come upon me daily.” The man knew he was going off to the next town, not in a Mercedes, not in a Lear jet. He’s walking there, and he knows the reception he’s going to get. They will hear him for a while, and then he’s going to be rejected, beaten, put in jail, or in prison, scourged and so forth. But besides all of that, he’s writing epistles. He wrote most of the New Testament. But what I am really impressed by - he names so many people at the ends of his epistles. By name he’s talking about them, and he says he’s praying for them always. And then he asks that they would always be in prayer for him. He even asks that “utterance may be given to me…” Ephesians 6, “that I may speak boldly as I ought to speak.” When you think of Paul - why do you need to pray for Paul to have boldness and to be able to speak out? You would think no one was so forward, so energetic and conscientious and concerned to do that as Paul. So we don’t take anything for granted Tom That’s another thing about prayer. 

Tom: Yes.

Dave: I don’t have confidence in the flesh, Paul said, and I find that Tom, as well. Prayer is expressing to God my continual leaning upon Him. Committing myself to Him. Without Him, I can’t draw a breath, and we forget that.

Tom: Dave, there are also many scriptures that deal with conditions for God hearing our prayer. I want to go over some of these. Psalm:80:4O LORD God of hosts, how long wilt thou be angry against the prayer of thy people?
See All... says, “O LORD God of hosts, how long wilt thou be angry against the prayer of thy people?” I think of the example of the defeat at Ai for Joshua and…

Dave: Yes, he fell on his face.

Tom: Well dust, sackcloth and ashes, the whole thing, and what does God say to him? 

Dave: “Get up! This is no time for that sort of thing. We need repentance…”

Tom: “There is sin in the camp.”

Dave: Right, yes.

Tom: Well, let me give you some more of those, because, again, I want to underscore if you think that you can just pray, and God is going to answer your prayer no matter what, well, you better look to his Word. Proverbs:15:8The sacrifice of the wicked is an abomination to the LORD: but the prayer of the upright is his delight.
See All... says, “The sacrifice of the wicked is an abomination to the LORD: but the prayer of the upright is his delight.” Proverbs:15:29The LORD is far from the wicked: but he heareth the prayer of the righteous.
See All...: “The LORD is far from the wicked: but he heareth the prayer of the righteous.” Psalm:66:18If I regard iniquity in my heart, the Lord will not hear me:
See All...: “If I regard iniquity in my heart, the Lord will not hear me….” Proverbs:28:9He that turneth away his ear from hearing the law, even his prayer shall be abomination.
See All...: “He that turneth away his ear from hearing the law, even his prayer shall be abomination.”

Dave: It’s like - well I don’t know that it’s a perfect illustration, but I often try to get the heart of children and young people. What good does it do you on Mother’s Day if you give your mother a nice card and tell her how much you appreciate her, and so forth, but the rest of the year you disobey her, or on her birthday, or whatever. God expects some consistency in our lives. Why should He reward my disobedience and my disregard of His will and of His Word? Why should He reward that with answered prayer?

Tom: And not even reward - reinforce an attitude that’s upsetting to him. It would be an abomination.

Dave: That’s right, that’s what it would mean if He rewarded me for…He’s just encouraging me to be the way I am, and many parents are that way. Of course this whole world, Tom, is lacking discipline. I see it more, and more, and more, even in Christian families. We just heard a case the other day - this happened to be a divorced couple, and she has custody, but he has them certain times every other weekend or whatever, and she doesn’t discipline them. And he’s trying to bring them back in line, and he, I guess, just spanked one of the little boys and he (the little boy) reports it. The Bible says, “He that loves his child disciplines him betimes.” You don’t spare the rod, [or] you spoil the child, and Proverbs says that, but you can’t do that anymore. And he told a teacher, I guess, that his daddy hit him.

Tom: This is the child.

Dave: Yes, his daddy hit him, and the teacher then reports it, and now the father is investigated, and he has to go to some kind of therapy because he dared to discipline a little boy who needs it badly, who just defies his parents.  Well that’s the world we live in, and I’ve often expressed it. Some of these two- and three-year-olds that I see ought to have an emperor’s crown on their heads. They run the show and the parents and everyone else is afraid to cross them [because] they’ll throw a tantrum.

So when we pray, it’s a family relationship we have with our heavenly Father. And, of course, if you are out there listening and you do not have that relationship, you haven’t received Christ as your Savior, your Lord, you don’t love Him, you don’t know God, it’s not going to do you any good to pray. You might as well recite a mantra; get into the New Age if you want. Try to make some positive confession; try to believe that you can control your destiny with your mind; you can create reality with your mind. Go ahead; try that route if you want. But if you want the God who created this universe to be your heavenly Father and to guide your life, then you have to come to Him through Jesus Christ who died for your sins, paid the penalty for your sins. And then we approach him as our heavenly Father: “Father, you know best, but, Father, I have this need, or my friend has this need - we are asking you in your wisdom if you would do this, but if in your wisdom that’s not your will, we want what is best.”

Tom: Dave, I remember saying to somebody, and they took my head off for it, that God doesn’t answer the prayers of an unbeliever except that an unbeliever cries out to Him for salvation.

Dave: Right, yes. Well, we can’t make a hard-and-fast rule. He could for some reason, to bring that person to himself. But anyway, prayer is not vain. The scripture says it is not a vain thing to call upon the living God. But it’s not that we are telling God what to do and why should we bother because he already knows what he’s going to do. Or why should we pray “according to thy will?” People like Hagin and Copeland and so forth, Benny Hinn - they say, “Well, if you do that, you are expressing your unbelief. No, we are not. We are expressing our desire that our heavenly Father’s will would be done. So prayer is tremendous. “The effectual, fervent prayer of a righteous man availeth much.” It is not a vain thing, but it is not an “open sesame.” It’s not a magic formula…

Tom: Right.

Dave: …to get what we want, but it is an expression of our submission to the Lord, and it’s part of the…  You know Andrew Murray wrote a book way back there 100 years ago, more than 100, titled With Christ in the School of Prayer. It’s a school where we learn our Father’s will.

Tom: Dave, the verse that you just quoted from James, “The effectual, fervent prayer of a righteous man…” - we are talking a righteous man, a righteous woman, a righteous child - and that’s reinforced by…I just want to go over two other verses…

Dave: First John – you have a good one there, probably, in chapter…

Tom: Go ahead.

Dave: Well, I thought…you’ve got them laid out there before you. I would just be going by my faulty memory.

Tom: Well give me that one, because I don’t have it written down here.  

Dave: Well, we ask and we receive because we keep His commandments and do those things that are well-pleasing in His sight.

Tom: Well, let me add two to that: Isaiah:1:15And when ye spread forth your hands, I will hide mine eyes from you: yea, when ye make many prayers, I will not hear: your hands are full of blood.
See All...: It says, “And when ye spread forth your hands, I will hide my eyes from you: (this is the Lord speaking) yea, when ye make many prayers, I will not hear: your hands are full of blood.”

Dave: Wow!

Tom: And that sounds like an extreme case, but Isaiah:59:2But your iniquities have separated between you and your God, and your sins have hid his face from you, that he will not hear.
See All... says, “But your iniquities have separated between you and your God, and your sins have hid his face from you, that he will not hear.”

Dave: Right, yes.

Tom: Those are not chilling, but they’re sobering verses about my prayer life and my relationship with the Lord.

Dave: Well, Tom, I think one of the greatest needs in churches, on Christian TV, and let’s say Christian radio for us as well, and in our individual lives and our families is to realize who God is. There’s not much…well, the scripture says “There is no fear of God before their eyes.” This God is so awesome, so great, and that we would even dare to ask Him anything could only be because of His grace and because of what Christ has done for us. I only come into His presence in the name of Jesus Christ and through the blood of Christ that was poured out on the cross for my sins. No other basis. And we approach God too casually. [With] some TV programs, you almost get the idea that they’ve got God by the tail. And “Oh, wait a minute, stop a minute…, oh, yeah!” God says something to them, “Oh yeah, okay!” Wait a minute! You are not on that casual basis of a relationship with God. This is a very solemn, even frightening—I often tell God I am afraid, Lord; I am afraid to come into Your presence. We need a little revival of the fear of God based upon who God really is, and I think we have forgotten that. And that is what prayer would do for me. In other words, it ought to, because I should come to God with that attitude of heart.

Tom: Yes, and that’s our encouragement. Look, the verses that we’ve gone over and the encouragement we have for our listeners out here is that a personal relationship with Jesus Christ - yes, fear of God is important, but He said, “Come to me all ye who….”

Dave: “…All you who labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest.” Yes, he loves us. He is the lover of our souls, He is our friend, and yet He is awesome.

Gary: You’ve been listening to a special edition of Search the Scripures 24/7 with Dave Hunt and T.A. McMahon, a radio ministry of The Berean Call. We offer a wide variety of resources to help you in your study of God’s Word. For a complete list of materials and a free subscription to our monthly newsletter, contact us at PO Box 7019, Bend, Oregon, 97708; call us at 800-937-6638; or visit our website at thebereancall.org. I’m Gary Carmichael. Thanks for joining us, and we hope you can tune in again next week. Until then, we encourage you to search the Scriptures 24/7.