Question: Is there any teaching in the Bible that says men are so different from women?

Question: Is there any teaching in the Bible that says men are so different from women? There are so many conferences for women where they are taught differently from what they teach at conferences for men. Is this scriptural? When I read in the Word that “man shall not live by bread alone,” doesn’t it mean “man and woman”? Are all these men’s conferences and women’s conferences born out of the world system of psychology? I would certainly appreciate your answer.

Response: The Bible certainly takes into account differences between men and women, not only the obvious physical ones, but in the role each is to play in the home and family, and also in the church. The husband has a distinct leadership role in the family. That does not, however, mean that the wife is without influence in decision making. The husband is exhorted to love his wife as himself; and real love seeks the blessing and honor of the one loved. Yet the woman is clearly not “to teach, nor usurp authority over the man” (1 Timothy:2:11-12 [11] Let the woman learn in silence with all subjection. [12] But I suffer not a woman to teach, nor to usurp authority over the man, but to be in silence.
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As you point out, very rarely does Scripture address itself to either men or women distinctly. The reasons are obvious: all are sinners, all need the same redemption and maturity in the Lord, and the basis of spiritual growth for each is the same.

The words “man” or “men” as used in the Bible almost always refer to both men and women, such as in the verse you quoted in your letter, and nearly everywhere else. When Psalm:119:9(BETH.) Wherewithal shall a young man cleanse his way? by taking heed thereto according to thy word.
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The “fruit of the Spirit” (Galatians:5:22But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, longsuffering, gentleness, goodness, faith,
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Spiritual life and growth, the application of God’s Word, the faith that we hold, and our love for God and total reliance upon Christ as our very life, all apply equally to men and women. Therefore, if there were to be separate meetings for men and women, they would be of very limited nature. Today’s growing tendency to hold long conferences and workshops and seminars specifically for men or women should be viewed with caution.